My
sincere apologies to Ms. Mukherjee (Mrs. Chopra?) for using her name to grab
eyeballs. It’s all about packaging now. But I first heard this word way back in
class VII in a Hindi text book, a prose on a legendary queen. The meaning
explained through a variety of questions, reference to context problems and
what not by my Hindi teacher. And now looking back, I truly realize what
Mardaani is all about. It’s surely not just fighting with arms, or chasing
goons, it’s about fighting and living life with an optimistic sense of hope.
I
knew of her existence way back in junior school. She taught Hindi, a subject
that I dreaded. It was and has remained the Achilles’ heel in my otherwise good
academic record in my school days. She actually taught me in seventh grade, but
my fear of the subject remained or should I say rather grown over the years. I
still remember that horrid morning, when I boarded the school bus and asked
casually a fellow class mate the expansion of cubes. It was the dreaded half
yearly exams and that day was Mathematics (or so I believed). The friend looked
at me as if I had just grown two new horns. Surprise, worry and a slight suppressed
giggle. I had somehow managed to mess up
the dates and it was actually the Hindi test. I laugh when I think about it
today, but at that moment all I remember is I suddenly felt dizzy and blank.
Before I knew it, I was sobbing. The sobs grew to an audible cry when my slight
hope that it was she who was wrong and we would have the Mathematics exam
collapsed after we reached school.
She
Mrs. Rajni Dutta or Ma’am Dutta was she was called spotted me in the corridor.
I always knew she was strict, rather I had a pre-conceived notion that all
Hindi teachers where just as bad as their chosen discipline of study. Some of
my classmates were trying to calm me down while the rest chose to move away and
do last minute revisions praying for an easy paper and perhaps thanking that
they didn’t have the same fate as mine. She
dispersed the small crowd and took me aside and enquired in the most cheerful
voice. I sobbed and told her that my Hindi was weak and I had prepared Math for
a Hindi test. I would surely fail. She
simply smiled! How wicked I thought.
Our
school is Catholic. I mean it follows basic Christianity. So morning assemblies
were a must and if you were caught skipping it under any pretext, you were
dealt with utmost severity. It was September, a pleasant fall, and the students
moved to the main ground for the assembly. Right after that the students would
come back to the classrooms, put their books aside, carry the exam paraphernalia
and move to the respective classrooms for the gruelling three hour ordeal. So it
was roughly twenty-five to thirty minutes before my impending doom.
She
said, “Wait here”. She disappeared somewhere but was back in less than two
minutes. She had with her the Hindi textbook and some notes. “Come on, read!”
She commanded. I was too dumbstruck to disobey. I don’t really remember the
next twenty minutes. All I do is
“Bundeley
Harbolon key munh, humney suni kahaani thi,
Khub
ladi Mardaani woh to Jhansi Wali rani thi”.
She
made me quickly revise the names of authors and poets, some short questions
from the text, primarily Jhansi Ki Rani and some more stuff. She asked me, “you
are a Bengali, and then you do celebrate Dusherra?” I said yes, Durga Puja,
right after these exams. She smiled again. That would take care of the
essays. And then she simply told me a
maxim that I use even today. For grammar in Hindi, simply say the sentence to
yourself, if it sounds right, it probably is.
The
assembly was over, she took me to the ladies room, made me wash my face and
said, “Life is an exam Swagata and more often the syllabus is far more unknown.
All the best.” With that she was gone and I was there taking a dreaded three
hour Hindi exam, literature and grammar. I had paid attention to the pre-exam
revisions sessions held in our school and me and her had crammed in those final
twenty five minutes.
Try
hard as I may, I don’t remember what was in the paper, or what I actually
wrote. I do remember getting a 79/100, the highest I ever got in Hindi in my
school. No, she hadn't told me what
would be in the exam nor was she too biased while she graded my answer script.
She was above all that petty partiality and favouritism. She had simply helped,
calmed me down and made me take an exam. I later learnt, in those two minutes
she ran up to our head mistress, asked for permission for me to skip assembly.
She had based her arguments on my previous reputation and record in school and
simply said “I know the girl, she is not lying.”
To
my relief I left Hindi a year later when I was given a choice between Hindi and
Sanskrit in ninth grade. I chose the latter. But my relationship with her
continued, even after school. We became friends. Through those years I learnt
that she was a fighter and was constantly giving an exam. She hailed from
Lucknow. She had two daughters. She
lost her husband when her younger one was forty five days old. She was a great teacher,
a single parent, and breadwinner. She didn't have self pity. She juggled
several roles. She always smiled.
I
would call her on her birthdays. I had a long chat before I left for abroad. I
last spoke to her when I had come home for my first vacation. She sounded
cheerful as usual. I grew busy and we kind of lost touch. I saw pictures of her
daughter’s wedding on Facebook. Yes, she had raised two lovely girls, was
marrying off one of them, she did everything, without a man. She didn’t look
like a haggard sorrowful woman. She did her duty with élan and was celebrating
like everyone else. She had aged since I last saw her, but her face was now
calm, graceful and content.
And
two weeks back again on Facebook, I read “RIP Rajni Dutta”. Three simple words
posted by some random student and some teachers. It had been somewhat painful.
Even if it was, I am sure she would smile at that too. To me she epitomized
eternal hope, a spirit to live and fierce determination. If fate wanted her to
lose, she gave it her best fight. She was in every sense, Mardaani, a strong
woman, a no-nonsense attitude, but with a touch of love, compassion and a rare
sensitivity.
“Bundeley
Harbolon key munh, humney suni kahaani thi,
Khub
ladi Mardaani woh to Jhansi Wali rani thi”.
Good Bye Ma’am.